# Letting Go And Letting In > Letting go releases resistance while letting in receives the preferred state by releasing beliefs blocking your true vibration. - Canonical: https://sassani.app/topic/letting-go-and-letting-in # Letting Go And Letting In A reframe of what many call "the law of attraction." Across these sessions Bashar insists that you do not have to learn to attract what you prefer, because your core signature frequency is already radiating the vibration of your true self constantly, like a beacon, and everything representative of that frequency is already doing its best to reach you. The work is not attraction but subtraction: letting go of the beliefs and definitions that are keeping the preferred away and holding the unwanted near, so that what matches you can come in. ## The beacon is already on The teaching begins from a premise about identity. You already are a particular signature frequency — the vibration of your true self — and you cannot help radiating it outward all the time. Everything representative of that frequency is already following that beacon and doing its best to manifest for you; everything incompatible with it is already doing its best to get as far away as possible. This inverts the usual framing. The question is not "how do I raise my vibration to attract what I want?" but "what am I keeping away, and what am I holding onto?" When what matches you fails to arrive, the cause is not weak attraction — it is that your definitions of fear and unworthiness are keeping it away. When what does not match you hangs around, the cause is not bad luck — it is that you are holding onto it. ## Let go of what is leaving; let in what is arriving Bashar gives the mechanism a compact slogan: you do not have to learn to attract; you only have to let go of the things that are attempting to get away from you and let in the things that are attempting to get to you. That is the core of how the law of attraction actually works. The same session underlines that no one in your reality needs to learn to be abundant, confident, or trusting — you are already those things 100% of the time. The only question is what you are abundant, confident, and trusting in. You can have confidence in lack and an abundance of lack; you are still abundant. So the work is not acquiring a new capacity but releasing the beliefs that have been directing the capacity you already have. ## The belief thief The four-laws monologue names a specific culprit: beliefs that do not belong to you. The journey in physical reality is described as a process of letting go of beliefs you have bought into — picked up from parents, friends, or society — that are simply out of alignment with your true core vibration. If you are traveling through life carrying beliefs that belong to someone else, you become a "belief thief." Bashar's instruction is blunt: drop them, let them go, do not carry them around, because they will tire you out and wear you down. Anything compatible with your core vibration feels light, energized, creative, and loving; anything that is not you feels like strain, struggle, effort, and pain. The same session ties this directly to pain: pain — physical, emotional, or spiritual — is the result of resistance to your natural self. The prescribed shift is to stop resisting who you are. You do not need to make life work; you need to let life work, because life already works automatically and fluidly on its own. It is the beliefs layered on top that block the experience of that automatic working. ## Practical implications Treat the felt sense of strain, struggle, or pain as a signal that a belief not your own is being carried. Bashar describes compatible beliefs as feeling light and energizing, and incompatible beliefs as feeling like a trial or tribulation. When something you prefer is not arriving, investigate what fear-based definition is keeping it away, rather than trying harder to attract it. The teaching is that what matches you is already trying to reach you; the only obstacle is the belief holding it out. When something you do not prefer is persisting, investigate what you are holding onto, rather than treating it as an outside imposition. The unwanted stays only because it is being held. Apply the same logic to abundance, confidence, and trust: assume the capacity is already intact and redirect it deliberately, rather than treating it as a skill to be acquired. ## Representative passages You don't have to do anything special to attract those things. What you need to do is stop keeping them from yourself through your definitions of fear and negativity. Because when you finally let those things go, all the things that are representative of that true vibration will come into your life in proper timing, in proper order, automatically and effortlessly. And the only reason that things hang around that are not compatible with your true vibration is because you're holding on to them. Let them go. So the law of attraction is really more about letting go and letting in.— Bashar, Redefining The Law Of Attraction (redefining-the-law-of-attraction#qa-2) The idea is not so much that you have to learn to attract. The idea is that you simply have to let go of the things that are attempting to get away from you and just let in the things that are attempting to get to you. That's actually the core of how the law of attraction works.— Bashar, Monologue Part04Willa Tetrahedral Space time Antenna (monologue-part04willa-tetrahedral-space-time-antenna#text) If you are traveling through life, carrying beliefs that belong to someone else, that makes you a belief siph. Don't steal other people's beliefs. They don't belong to you. So if you find that you have beliefs that don't belong to you, drop them. Let them go. Don't carry them around. They will tire you out, wear you down, because they're not compatible with your core vibration.— Bashar, Monologue Four Laws Of Creation (monologue-four-laws-of-creation#text) ## Related - [Law of Attraction](https://sassani.app/topic/law-of-attraction) - [Signature Vibration](https://sassani.app/topic/signature-vibration) - [Resistance](https://sassani.app/topic/resistance) - [Allowance](https://sassani.app/topic/allowance) - [Surrender & Letting Go](https://sassani.app/topic/surrender) - [Manifestation](https://sassani.app/topic/manifestation) Markdown twin of https://sassani.app/topic/letting-go-and-letting-in. The HTML page is the source of truth.