# Pregnancy & Birth > Conception, pregnancy, and birth are co-creative spiritual agreements across dimensions with the incoming being and dolphin consciousness - Canonical: https://sassani.app/topic/pregnancy-and-birth # Pregnancy & Birth In Bashar's teaching, conception, pregnancy, and birth are co-creative agreements that span dimensions, not purely physical events. The being who will incarnate is a partner in the agreement, contactable before birth; a "phantom" pregnancy can be the midwifing of a consciousness being born into another realm while still producing physical effects here; and the chosen method of delivery is simply the one that most excites the mother. Throughout, Bashar frames birth as something to share with the incoming being, with dolphin consciousness, and with all available support, so that the load is not borne alone. None of this is offered as medical direction; it is a spiritual account of birth that complements, rather than replaces, the medical frame. ## Conception is an agreement; the timing is the agreement's timing A questioner who had been told medically she could never have children asks whether she will have a child. Bashar frames the answer in terms of a pre-incarnation agreement rather than physiology alone. The being who can be attracted in this way will be able to partake of the parent's body, project itself energetically into the parent's "view structure," and activate the process of evolution. The parent chooses the timing of the agreement with that child: if it is not the time, nothing the parent does will produce a child, and after that time nothing the parent does will prevent it. The session notes that many women told medically they cannot have a child have gone on to have many — because the timing of the agreement is what creates the ability, not the physiological verdict in isolation. The implication is not that medical diagnosis is irrelevant, but that the deeper timing is set by the agreement and its readiness. The session in question is from Remembering and is captured in that transcript; in the Association Earth session that this chapter primarily cites, the same framework is applied to two related cases. ## "Phantom pregnancy" as dimensional birthing One questioner in Association Earth manifests all the symptoms of pregnancy — morning sickness, bloating, the full physical experience — while every test comes back negative. Bashar's reply reframes the situation: in a sense, the person is quite pregnant, but the being is not quite in this dimension, though it can create effects in this dimension as if it were. By agreement, the person is acting as a vessel for a new consciousness to be born into the world, and many of the individuals being born of humanity are actually being born in other realms. When open contact between civilizations becomes more natural, many on Earth will discover these children coming to greet them, and will recognize each other by feeling. Bashar identifies the questioner as one of the midwives of this dimensional birthing, which is why the effects are felt. The practical instruction is to diffuse the surrounding energy — to invite the energy of the incoming being and of many supporting beings, including dolphin consciousness (whose area of expertise this is), so that the entire effect is not concentrated in one body. Let it be a birth that spans the dimensions; then the energy is supported by the total birth, and the person does not bear the brunt of what feels negative. ## The chosen delivery method is the one that excites the mother A pregnant questioner in the same session is confused about whether to choose a medical doctor, a home birth, or a water birth. Bashar's reply is that no confusion is necessary: which option pulls her strongest? Do not invalidate it. A combination drawn from this and that is valid in itself; the parent's own definition of how she would enjoy creating the birth is what matters. He specifically encourages her to allow a dolphin consciousness to be present in the water — whether she is physically in water or not — and to allow the child, the dolphin, herself, and everyone to share the load, so that she does not bear it alone: "It is one effortless event." This is not a directive to choose water birth or to avoid medical care; it is a directive to honor whichever method genuinely excites the individual mother and to treat the event as shared across beings and dimensions rather than as a solo physiological load. ## Contact with the incoming being before birth, and the Arcturus gate symbol To the same pregnant questioner, Bashar offers a concrete pre-sleep practice: that evening, as she drifts off in a relaxed state, clear herself and simply repeat the word "Amiana, Amiana," then listen as she drifts off and see what she wakes up with. The word functions as a permission slip for contacting the incoming being. He also offers an imaginative focus: a white twelve-pointed star on an orange circle against a black background. He identifies this as the symbol of the Arcturus gate, through which many newborns are, in his account, "processed" into Earth's civilization at this time. The symbol is offered as a focus, not as a doctrine; the questioner had independently felt connections with Arcturus in the past. ## Dolphin consciousness as birth assistant Dolphin consciousness appears in this session as a specific assistant in dimensional birthing. Bashar advises both the questioner with the phantom pregnancy and the pregnant questioner to seek out the assistance of dolphin consciousception — in imagination, in dream, or in physical proximity — because birthing across dimensions is described as the dolphins' specific area of expertise. The dolphin is treated as a collaborator that helps the dimensional birth proceed smoothly and that helps awaken the dream states into which much of that communication flows. ## Practical implications Bashar's teaching on pregnancy and birth is a reframing of the event rather than a clinical method. It must be read alongside, not in place of, medical care. With that boundary held, several clear implications follow: Treat conception as an agreement with a being, set in its own timing. The medical frame describes the physiology; Bashar's frame adds that the deeper timing is set by the pre-incarnation agreement, which can diverge from physiological expectation. If a pregnancy produces symptoms but no physical fetus, consider the dimensional frame. A "phantom pregnancy" can, in Bashar's account, be the midwifing of a consciousness being born in another realm while still creating effects here. The instruction is to diffuse the surrounding energy across many beings rather than concentrate it in one body. Choose the delivery method that genuinely excites you. There is no single right method in Bashar's frame; the method that most excites the mother is the right one for her, and a custom combination is valid. Invite the incoming being and dolphin consciousness to share the load. Birth is presented as a co-creative event shared across the incoming being, dolphin consciousness, and all available support, rather than a load the mother bears alone. Use a pre-sleep practice and an imaginative focus to contact the being. Bashar offers the word "Amiana" and the symbol of the Arcturus gate (a white twelve-pointed star on an orange circle against a black background) as optional foci. ## Representative passages In a sense you are quite pregnant, but the being is not quite in your dimension, though it can create effect as if it were. You are by agreement acting as a vessel for a new consciousness to be born into your world, and many of the individuals being born of you are actually being born in other realms; when open contact is more natural, many of you will discover these children coming to greet you and will recognize each other by feeling. Allow the energy of that being, and many beings, to assist you — and seek assistance from dolphin consciousness, which is their area of expertise.— Bashar, Association Earth (association-earth#qa-10) Which option pulls you the strongest? Do not invalidate it; your own combination is valid. Allow a dolphin consciousness to be in that water, whether you are actually in water or not. Allow the child, the dolphin, yourself, everyone, and you will not bear the load — it is one effortless event. A symbol that may assist you is a white 12-pointed star on an orange circle against a black background — the symbol of the Arcturus gate through which many newborns are processed into your civilization at this time.— Bashar, Association Earth (association-earth#qa-21) ## Related - [Hybrid Children & Hybrid Races](https://sassani.app/topic/hybrid-children) - [Dolphins](https://sassani.app/topic/dolphins) - [Conscious Commandment](https://sassani.app/topic/conscious-commandment) - [Excitement](https://sassani.app/topic/excitement) Markdown twin of https://sassani.app/topic/pregnancy-and-birth. The HTML page is the source of truth.